Friends....

Friends come and go but every time before they leave, they leave us here with memories.

Someone once told me, “Friends should not be too close as one will leave the other sooner or later and will regret that they cannot maintain the same closeness they had.”

It is not what we will have or get in the future but what we had in the past and whether did we cherish and treasure it deep in our heart or not. We cannot plan for the future and what we plan might not come true. Besides, we should make everyday like our last. As tomorrow is still a mystery to us and today is the best present we have.

Therefore, we should do what we can and enjoy it while we are together especially family and friends. Leave the future worries until the time comes. Why worry about tomorrow when today has not end?

It is better to ‘taste’ before than never get the chance to ‘taste’ it with that particular person. It might be bitter in time to come but let it be sweet once when you are capable in making the sweetness.

To tell you deep in the heart, maybe in the future, the closeness we have now will fade but this is what I have to say before the closeness fade:-

I am grateful to have a bunch of family and friends that love me, support me when I need it. There are some passengers in my life that gave me support and love too and they will never be at the back of my heart where all there is left is just bad memories and guilt. I feel comfortable to have friends (some) like you all. Some of them taught me lessons of life and some are still teaching. Maybe I dislike that person but I am still happy to have that person in my life because he/she has taught me and is still teaching me the lessons that I should know to stay in this world. I also cannot thank all the people around me for the good and bad things they have given me. They have been challenges and encouragement for me to live on with my life although sometimes I feel like giving up. Maybe the closeness of our relationship will slowly fade when we are a few miles away or worse still, hundred and thousand miles apart, I will still pray for you and us. I am sure I will change physically and mentally with the running of time but the relationship between us will not change.